It’s been a full 8 years since I filed my first LLC documents with the Secretary of State’s office forming my first limited liability company.
Wow, a lot has changed, but then again maybe not that much. You see, about 2002, when I was getting my first business underway, America was recovering from the burst of the dot com bubble and the tragedy of 9-11. Companies weren’t really hiring the skills that I had – at least not unless one had loads of prior experience.
Turns out, that “bad economy” propelled me to start my own business a little sooner than I had planned. I started what is now Fox Web co in 2002. Eight solid years, 3 kids and thousands of miles traveled later, I’m a thriving small business dad.
There are hundreds of articles and perspectives on work-life balance, but after just spending five days swinging the balance a bit more towards the “life” side of things during a Spring Break vacation in Point Clear, Alabama, I’m going to throw my 2 cents in the ring, too.
For me, there are a few of non-negotiables that afford me the lifestyle flexibility I enjoy:
1. Priorities. Everything has to be kept in perspective. I struggle to keep an eternal perspective at all times. I may lose a sale here and there, miss some networking events, or fail to line up every appointment I’d like, but I want to NEVER miss the important things. I’m hardly perfect in this realm, but taking a real break on Sunday from all work stuff has been huge for my sanity. It’s easy to run out the door every day without spending time on the REALLY important things, but hopefully I’m getting progressively better at that. Time with my wife and kids are a priority, too. If I lose a sale or an opportunity because I didn’t miss an opportunity to spend time with my kids, I’d have to say that I did the right thing. I’m 31 years old, and there will be plenty of time to build the business, but “daddy dates” and enjoying activities with the kids like hunting, fishing, museums, the zoo, cooking together and dancing in our living room are really important investments of time. Much more so the time spent with God, that I often neglect.
2. Breadwinning. All of that said, keeping food on the table is REALLY important. Sometimes that means that I’m up working at 11:30 p.m. after the kids are asleep, moving project forward, answering emails and checking things off the list. Sometimes I’ll drive six hours to spend time with my daughter in one day, but I have to purpose to redeem the time while I can in the car, using technology when I can to keep my business moving.
3. Unplugging. I’m often the guy you see in the airport or restaurant with the cell phone in my hands nonstop. I look like an ADD kid, pulling it out in between ordering my food and fixing my drink at a restaurant. Or I can be seen frantically texting while I wait for the waiter to bring me my lunch. Am I just a geek? Maybe. But I use the tools that I’ve been able to acquire to keep my business moving, my employees connected, and my customers informed. Sometimes though, it’s hard to really unplug because there’s always something going on that comes directly to my queue. E-mails don’t filter themselves out or categorize themselves for the different priority levels. For me, it’s been important to create a system so that when I do unplug, customers know where to get an immediate response, even if that response doesn’t come from me. I’ve set up auto-responders, changed voicemail messages, or just forwarded messages on to my associates to help me have those moments of unplugged sanity for myself and my family. Everything doesn’t constitute an emergency, and clients who consistently call me on a Friday night needing help with something probably need to come up with a different plan. I’ve had to part ways with a few of those sorts of clients over the years, and because of that, my sanity and quality of life has increased greatly.
4. Technology. Specifically, mobile technology, has been a key to my lifestyle and mobility. My phone allows me to manage my calendar, multiple e-mail accounts, to-do lists, project management and much more. Apps for Iphone and Android allow all small business owners the freedom to take care of financial matters including bank transfers and bill pay from the convenience of our phone. Voicemail transcribed to text messages lets me know what a message says at a glance without having to step out of my kids’ events or playtime, because I can learn quickly that it isn’t an emergency. Would you rather work two hours later at the office, or be interrupted a couple of times to text or email during a baseball game outing with your family? For me, I know where the real value is. Staying connected but not tied down is easier to do than ever before with the new smart phones. The advertisements that say “There’s an app for that” is really true. Regardless of who your phone carrier is, you can probably increase your productivity a great deal, simply by going into their store and finding a HELPFUL representative who will spend a few minutes helping you find ways to help you and your business be more productive – and flexible.
Andy Chapman is co-founder of the Results Revolution, social media expert and business advisor at HALO Business Advisors and President of Fox Web co. He is husband to Marianna. They have three kids, a Springer Spaniel and a marathon training habit.









